Being Not Together

Much has been said about the long-distance relationship and the reason of having one. Of course, it conveys a great number of difficulties and does not always lead to good results but these axioms are not of much use for those who are already involved in the relations of this kind. So, it is better to think of how to make this relationship work instead of dwelling upon its riskiness. When you are not together, regular communication becomes vitally important. You should call each other every day in some established time and use all other means of communication as well.

Try to tell your partner everything that has happened to you during the day, send photos, but avoid mentioning negative events as they will only make your partner sad. However if you need advice in some difficult situation, you should address your boyfriend in order to receive support – it will make you closer to each other and give him the feeling that he is needed.

Continue reading

Advertisements

Addiction to bad relationships

You have been dating your partner for pretty long. But it turns out that in fact you do not enjoy your relationship. You feel desperate and unhappy. You try your best to change the situation for the better. You want to be happy being with him. But all your attempts fail. Being with your boyfriend you feel frustrated and unsatisfied. Emotionally you are not ready to break up. Simply you can not overcome your fears to stay alone. Moreover it turns out that you face the situation over and over. Some girls are even emotionally and physically abused but they can’t split with their partners. What could be actual reasons of it? Well, as it was mentioned above one of the most common reasons is your conviction you would never ever date someone else. You are sure that it would be better to stay with your partner than to be alone. Your position is wrong. Probably it happens because you are uncertain person and have a low self-esteem. If so then you need to work it out. Try to do your best to change your opinion toward your personality. Do not be afraid to accept yourself as you are and do no be afraid to break up. How could you predict what would happen to you in future? It means that you block your ability to move on.

Continue reading